Category Archives: 1. Understanding Sexual Addiction
Are Men Just Made That Way?
What if men can’t help themselves? What if doing porn or having affairs are just part of the male make-up? We’ve probably all heard some variation of this rationale. It might have been something like “boys will be boys,” “men have a higher sex drive,” or “men need variety—they get bored in monogamous relationships.” Maybe…
How Can He Love God and Do THAT?
Do you sometimes wonder whether your husband is really even a Christian? There’s little doubt that his behavior grieves God and hurts others. Wouldn’t a real Christian be able to “man-up” and start leading his family in the ways of righteousness? He claims to know it’s wrong and yet he still keeps going back to…
The Way to Genuine Hope and Freedom
Maybe you’ve heard the dismal statistics relating to sexual addiction recovery. Maybe people you trust have told you that a person can never FULLY be free from this addiction. Maybe your husband has failed so many times at his attempts to turn away from pornography or get a rein on his fantasies that you’re both…
Is This YOUR Secret Fear?
Escalating addictive behaviors often bring new fears—for both the struggler and their spouse. Many wives have come to us expressing deep concern about their personal safety. They feel like they no longer know this man they married. They never, in their wildest dreams, could have believed that he was capable of the type of activities…
Women Can Struggle Too
Sexual addiction is not just a men’s problem. It is estimated that a minimum of 15-20% of all women struggle with sexual addiction—even in the Christian community—and it appears that that number is on the rise. Statistics show that nearly one third of the visitors to pornographic websites are women. Others act out in a…
What Every Wife Should Know . . .
