Is Your life like Pin the Tail on the Donkey?

Remember when life was simpler? For most of us, childhood held a lot of golden moments. Yeah, there was some rough stuff, too—maybe painful, life changing stuff, but today I’m thinking about the good times. Remember playing outside until dusk on those long summer days? . . . the luxury of curling up with a…

Continue Reading →

A Sure Way to Still the Fear

Are there waves of fear crashing on your beach? That’s the best way I can think to describe those times when the lulling rhythm of life is interrupted by gripping anxiety. Do you know what I’m talking about? Almost anything can bring it on—the recent election, children that are late coming home, big bills or…

Continue Reading →

All You Need is the RIGHT Map to Get There!

Map? Who needs a map? Nearly everyone I know has a GPS these days. It hasn’t always been that way, though. Not so many years ago you were lost without a map (both literally and figuratively). Thankfully, you could get them almost anywhere: the drug store, the variety store, even some grocery stores and restaurants.…

Continue Reading →

Gaining Control When You Feel Out of Control

Most of us freak out just a bit when we feel out of control. It doesn’t matter whether it’s the situations and people around us, or our own deep internal feelings that we can’t seem to manage. The very thought that we might be losing control makes us feel very anxious and unsafe. If you…

Continue Reading →

Does Your Heart Cry Out to be “Enough?”

One of the most heart-wrenching parts of being the wife of a sex addict is that haunting voice inside your head that accuses you of not being “enough” for him. It taunts you with thoughts that if you were somehow better—prettier, thinner, sexier—your husband wouldn’t have to be ogling every woman he sees. He wouldn’t…

Continue Reading →