How to Live in Limbo with a Smile

Wives of addicts often complain about having to live in limbo. So many feel that all their plans for the future were snatched away, along with their security, the day they found out about their husband’s struggle. They no longer have any idea what the future will look like . . . and they hate…

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The 4 Keys to Staying Strong on the Journey

Sexual addiction recovery can often be a long road. It’s often easy to be strong for a day or a week, but how do you sustain it for months or even years? When I was looking for a name for the blog, I tried scores of different things. Some of them were dumb (I mean…

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Think You Want to Know? Be Careful!

As wives, shouldn’t we have the right to hear all the details about what our husbands have done in their sexual addiction? Maaaaybeeeee . . .  but there is something much more important to consider here than rights. You need to determine if it is the best thing for YOU! It is important for you…

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3 Things You Never Want To Be

How should a “good Christian woman” act when her life is falling apart and her loved one’s behavior makes her sick to her stomach? All too often, because of bad advice or their own confusion, wives take on roles in their life or marriage that actually make things worse—for their spouse, and especially for them.…

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Surviving Life on Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride

Being the wife of a sex addict is a lot like being trapped on Disney’s Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride. If you’ve ever visited Disneyland, it’s likely that you have boarded the cute little cars, pulled back the safety bar and taken a spin into the English countryside. (If you aren’t familiar with this popular ride,…

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