All Is Not Lost, It’s Just Time to Re-up

Living with a recovering addict is challenging in many ways, but probably the hardest thing of all is having to face another relapse. I have talked with many wives immediately following their husband’s return to old behaviors. The vast majority of them have uttered the same heart-wrenching words, “all is lost, we’re back at square…

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Why Is This Happening to ME, Oh God?

Sexual addiction is painful for everyone it touches. It ruins lives, dreams, and self-esteem—for both the struggler and their spouse. With some healing, the addict may get to the point of being able to acknowledge that their choices helped lead them down this path—but what about the spouse? Why is this happening to her? To…

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Teeny Weeny Update and an Invite!

Update time! I still don’t feel like things are quite back to normal around here after my husband’s health scare. My writing time has been SEVERELY limited these past few weeks as we’ve tried to navigate a ton of different doctor appointments, new gadgets and a concerted effort to get back to eating a little…

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God Will Reveal What Your Heart is Searching For

Throughout our lives we are searching for answers. Some of our questions are philosophical in nature: Who am I? What is my purpose? Which path should I choose? Others are more practical: How should I deal with this? How will I cover this unexpected bill? What should we have for dinner? Whether they are big…

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You Never Know What a Day Will Bring

There are events in all our lives that are game changers. You never know when or where they are coming, but once they do, life is never the same. It doesn’t mean life can’t be good again—sometimes even better—but when you look back over your life, these events stand out as pivotal points. They change…

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