The Way Back from the Nightmare

Have you ever wished that your husband’s problem was just a bad dream? Wouldn’t it be wonderful to wake up to life the way it was before any of this nightmare came to light? Unfortunately, those kind of instant plot resolutions only happen in TV movies. In real life many resolutions, including this one, come…

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3 Things You Never Want To Be

How should a “good Christian woman” act when her life is falling apart and her loved one’s behavior makes her sick to her stomach? All too often, because of bad advice or their own confusion, wives take on roles in their life or marriage that actually make things worse—for their spouse, and especially for them.…

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The Way to Genuine Hope and Freedom

Maybe you’ve heard the dismal statistics relating to sexual addiction recovery. Maybe people you trust have told you that a person can never FULLY be free from this addiction. Maybe your husband has failed so many times at his attempts to turn away from pornography or get a rein on his fantasies that you’re both…

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Surviving Life on Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride

Being the wife of a sex addict is a lot like being trapped on Disney’s Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride. If you’ve ever visited Disneyland, it’s likely that you have boarded the cute little cars, pulled back the safety bar and taken a spin into the English countryside. (If you aren’t familiar with this popular ride,…

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Is This YOUR Secret Fear?

Escalating addictive behaviors often bring new fears—for both the struggler and their spouse. Many wives have come to us expressing deep concern about their personal safety. They feel like they no longer know this man they married. They never, in their wildest dreams, could have believed that he was capable of the type of activities…

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