When You Love an Angry Man…

Living with an angry man can feel a lot like tiptoeing through landmines. You’re well aware that the danger is there, but you just never know when a wrong step will cause your world to blow up in your face. It’s nerve-wracking! Why is He So Full of Anger? It’s very common for an active…

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When Trouble Lingers…God is There

Literally, within minutes of writing my last post How to Live in Limbo with a Smile, I, unexpectedly found myself thrust into a limbo of my own. I discovered that I (and you, too) were, in essence, locked out of this blog because of a “fatal error.” I don’t know about you, but for me,…

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How to Live in Limbo with a Smile

Wives of addicts often complain about having to live in limbo. So many feel that all their plans for the future were snatched away, along with their security, the day they found out about their husband’s struggle. They no longer have any idea what the future will look like . . . and they hate…

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Were You Cheated in the Romance Department?

Romance is a big deal for most women. Whether it’s with candles and elegance or spontaneity and surprises, it makes us feel special and feeds our deep yearning to be chosen, pursued and cherished. For anyone married to a sex addict, however, daring to hope for romance generally provides nothing but intense pain and disappointment.…

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Are Men Just Made That Way?

What if men can’t help themselves? What if doing porn or having affairs are just part of the male make-up? We’ve probably all heard some variation of this rationale. It might have been something like “boys will be boys,” “men have a higher sex drive,” or “men need variety—they get bored in monogamous relationships.” Maybe…

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